OK, so when I did speed dating, I got one half-hearted, “I’d be friends with him if I had to,” reply. Sixteen people and no one wanted to talk to me again. Well, my friend Matthew went and he got TWENTY-ONE HITS. He looks a little like Shaq, but he’s only 6′ or so and not as stupid, so he’s not a bad looking guy. Of course, he has his quirks as we all do, but that just makes it fun to talk to him.
I don’t know what to say other than Asian dudes can’t get any play in this town. Japanese-American dudes can’t get play anywhere except maybe Hawaii, and even there I think you have to have been born there.
Oh, and Megan wants me to take a survey of how long it should take between smooching and humping. She thinks six weeks is too long and is worried about, well, her brother. I don’t know how I’d conduct such a survey and also (almost) feel bad about taking crap about her brother (but I’m a troublemaker at heart.)
Six weeks. Sheesh. Dude is almost 42, not 14.
Um…well I tend to run a bit on the conservative side but I tend to leave the “humping” ’till I’m sure he’s the kind of guy I’d marry. But I’m a girl, a romantic sentimental kind of girl at that. So…anywhere from 6 months to engagement. If a guy is willing to stick around that long, he’s worth the extra effort in shaving :D.
P.S. Asian American dudes CAN get play, they just have to hang with Otaku girls.
i’m with megan: six weeks is too long unless the other person is a virgin. or they live cross country and have only actually seen each other twice during that time frame.
Got to admit…I agree somwhere between 6 months and engagement. Got to love the old fashioned morals, huh?
As to Asian-American dudes getting play, sems to me most chicks I see around Dallas date whatever strikes them. I see more white guys without dates then anyone else. 🙂 Good luck!