{"id":2562,"date":"2009-03-10T22:20:09","date_gmt":"2009-03-11T05:20:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.i8u.org\/blog\/?p=2562"},"modified":"2009-03-11T06:55:38","modified_gmt":"2009-03-11T13:55:38","slug":"sometimes-ill-take-invisibility","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.i8u.org\/blog\/?p=2562","title":{"rendered":"Sometimes I&#8217;ll take invisibility."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I actually got a phone number from a woman on Friday night. She was age-inappropriate, but as my buddy who just had brain surgery at 25 told me, &#8220;Enjoy life while you can.&#8221; In any case, she didn&#8217;t answer her phone the times I called which I&#8217;ve decided is much nicer than being insulted, which is how I usually get turned down for dates. Not recently, mind you, I get insulted enough at work that I don&#8217;t need to go looking around for more. I&#8217;m guessing that, like THMFIC says, at our age we&#8217;re just invisible to young women. And I&#8217;d rather be ignored than insulted.<\/p>\n<p>I also think I should also stop listening to the guys at work who keep telling me to ask out the single women there. It didn&#8217;t work out at all last time, and now they&#8217;re trying to get me to ask out someone from Human Resources. I can&#8217;t imagine anything that could turn out worse than that. Talking to some of our larger customers makes me feel like I&#8217;m poking a dangerous sleeping animal with a stick; messing with HR seems much worse.<\/p>\n<p>In any case I&#8217;ve decided that, to cheer myself up, I&#8217;m buying the Kindle 2 eventually. If I would have gotten a date I was going to buy the Kindle 2 to celebrate, so it&#8217;s not really a deciding factor. If you&#8217;re wondering how I have so much money to spend on such a gadget, I can tell you I found my REI dividend check and it was for a whole thirty-one dollars and fourteen cents that I can&#8217;t use at Amazon. I did get a not insignificant tax refund that&#8217;s going straight to Jay the Contractor, but I can divert some of it, can&#8217;t I? I suppose I&#8217;m still reading from my stack of books so I&#8217;ll see how I feel about this tomorrow.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I actually got a phone number from a woman on Friday night. She was age-inappropriate, but as my buddy who just had brain surgery at 25 told me, &#8220;Enjoy life while you can.&#8221; In any case, she didn&#8217;t answer her phone the times I called which I&#8217;ve decided is much nicer than being insulted, which is how I usually get turned down for dates. Not recently, mind you, I get insulted enough at work that I don&#8217;t need to go looking around for more. I&#8217;m guessing that, like THMFIC says, at our age we&#8217;re just invisible to young women. And I&#8217;d rather be ignored than insulted. I also think I &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.i8u.org\/blog\/?p=2562\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Sometimes I&#8217;ll take invisibility.<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2562","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-general"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.i8u.org\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2562","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.i8u.org\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.i8u.org\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.i8u.org\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.i8u.org\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2562"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.i8u.org\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2562\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2564,"href":"https:\/\/www.i8u.org\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2562\/revisions\/2564"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.i8u.org\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2562"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.i8u.org\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2562"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.i8u.org\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2562"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}